My Smiling Kids

At 39 weeks..

Posted by: littlemuffins on: December 15, 2009

I hope the ante-natal check up this morning that I went would be the last one.

If I didn’t go into labour until my EDD, I have been scheduled for the next ANC and ultrasound on the 22nd Dec which will be a day over my EDD… which means I would be induced.. hmm!

During my previous ANC last week (38th week), the nurse did a low vagina swab. It’s to check whether there’s any infection of certain bacteria which I can’t recall the name of.

Today I forgot to ask the ObGyn of the result. I believe if nothing is mentioned, everything is OK :) InsyaAllah.

Today the ObGyn also did a VE on me. I was damn scared as it was my first time with a male ObGyn. I cringed very obviously when he came over to poke me .. and the nurse soothed me.. relax mama.. relax mama.. By the way, relax mama is the most common usage in hospitals here.. Well, I was told it’s common among the Arabs everywhere in the world.. I don’t know but from my encounters here, it’s true.

So, has the baby engaged doctor? I asked after he finished checking my big tummy.

Still floating.. he answered. I assumed the baby has gone down but not properly engaged in the pelvis.

How many cm have I dilated doctor?

Only one finger.. errk!! (I don’t like the answer at all.. usually my ObGyn would tell me the real measurement in cm)

So, I assumed I am 1-2 cm dilated then..

Hmmmmfff.. I still couldn’t get the hang of being examined by a male ObGyn.. It felt so weird and I don’t know whether it psychological or what, but I felt the first VE I experienced here is much more painful?? Dr. Fauziah had been doing it time and again with me but her VE on me were very quick and much more bearable… Allahu’alam!

So, here I am.. putting in records of my experience in the hospital today..

I hope I would be in labour before the next scheduled ANC..

Still Waiting and Counting ;)

Posted by: littlemuffins on: December 13, 2009

I think my baby has engaged in the pelvis now.

I have 7 days more to go!!

Sometimes I could feel the weird electrical tingles in my vagina..

Sleeping at night has become more difficult..

I am all excited and obnoxious.. well nothing new about that, even after the 10th baby I guess?

pregnancy calendar

Counting Days

Posted by: littlemuffins on: December 9, 2009

 Pregnancy Ticker

Yes.. I have only 11 days to go if I got to deliver the baby on the EDD itself.

With Inas, the contraction was on the EDD night time and I delivered her the next day which was a day over the EDD.

With Umar, I chose to induce him 2 days before his EDD which was on my birthday.. not because I really wanted him to be born on my birthday but because, MrA was around in KL at that time for a meeting. We were living in Bintulu at that time and I had come back and stay with my parents leaving MrA in Bintulu a month before my due date for delivery. So, when MrA was around in KL, I told Dr. Fauziah to induce the baby. I was very much prepared with Umar’s delivery. It was a peace of mind :) and Alhamdulillah the delivery was also not as hard as Inas. There was no episiotomy involved and I recovered so much faster than when I was with Inas’ delivery. Yeah… because the first delivery was normally the harder one I supposed.

With the third junior coming soon, I could not tell how my feeling is. I am not in control of the information about the baby.. you know everytime I went for my Ante Natal Check-up (ANC), I couldn’t get as much info as I am so used of getting with the 2 previous pregnancies. Sad :(

Of course I asked questions but the feedback and answers have not been up to the standard of answering questions.. ahh.. just forget to ask more and more questions. It’s the norm that patients here don’t ask questions I believe :(

and I have to learn to be like that too..

Frustrating? Yes.. for me!

May Allah help me to brave through the delivery without MrA by my side.. huhu :( and I believe I would be an emotionally “stronger” mummy after this… Ameen!

and it seems that my mother is also kecut perut to be in the labour room!! Hehe :D

.. and I continue counting the days…

oh no!! baby diapers pun belum beli!!


Preparation :)

Posted by: littlemuffins on: November 6, 2009

Rombongan dari Malaysia yang nak hantar nenek & atok datang sini dah nak sampai minggu depan. Hanya lagi beberapa hari. Yay!!

Nenek bukan nak datang sangat pasal dia risau tinggalkan rumah dia kosong lama2.. hehehe :D Alah tak lama la nenek.. kurang sikit je 3 bulan :P Atok pulak yang lebih seronok nak datang sini!!

Jadi, hujung minggu ni ada sikit persiapan kemas mengemas sempena menyambut kedatangan rombongan dari Malaysia ni. Yang paling sibuk ialah Abang Umar. Dia basuh semua ‘kenderaan’. Sebenarnya mula2 tolong MrA basuh high chair yg dah berhabuk pasal takde siapa pakai.. basuh high chair bukan untuk baby dalam perut mummy tapi untuk Fatih budak comel yg suka makan yang juga termasuk dalam rombongan yang hantar atok & nenek hehe :D

Ini Fatih :)

Ini pulak kaki Fatih yg comel :D

Jom tengok apa yang Abg Umar sibuk sangat basuh pagi tadi..

Highchair dah basuh.. tgh bagi kering.. basuh basikal pulak skrg..

Tgh basuh basikal..

Basuh car pulak pasal nanti ni Fatih nak main.. kata Abg Umar

Basuh tayar kereta pulak :)

Great job Abg Umar!! Nanti Fatih boleh makan duduk dalam high chair yang dah bersih & wangi.. dan main red car petang2 :)

Oh.. kakak Inas pulak tiap2 hari tandakan kalendar dia.. countdown hari rombongan dari Malaysia ni nak sampai :D

Inas Assembly- Diary of a Bean Plant

Posted by: littlemuffins on: October 29, 2009

Inas had her assembly in school yesterday. Her school has a weekly assembly on Wednesdays at 9.00 a.m but yesterday it was Inas’ class who had to be on stage :)

Inas class (2 CB) had her assembly with another class and this time around it’s Science.. The Life Cycle of Living Things. Go here if you want to have a look at her assembly’s performance last academic year when Inas was in Year 1.

While waiting for the Reception, Year 1 and Year 2 children to sit down and be organised, the music teacher conducted nice songs just so the kids would not make noises while waiting for the assembly to begin. Watch the video below… :)

The Head Teacher of AKIS Infant School. Had a chat with him sometime last month and he knows SMUC quite well and he's from Dover

The assembly started with a presentation of A Life Cycle of a Butterfly which was so much fun. They started with telling about the life cycle of a butterfly and later a story about the hungry catterpilar and ended their presentation with a song. Simply beautiful!!

Pity Inas because her class presentation was not that fun but of course it was still very good. I am happy with Inas because she presented her experiment with the beans successfully. Congrats Kakak!! She had also been practising her “words” the night before with me. Watch it below… the night before her assembly :)

Please excuse the video because I don’t know how to rotate it :P

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1. The presentation from 2 CB was about to begin. A boy from Inas’ class started with an introduction of the presentation. Then, some of Inas’ classmates explained the procedure and things needed to grow bean plants.

It's about to start.. Diary of a Bean Plant by Inas and Salma..

2. Inas and Salma has prepared a diary of the bean plant where they jotted down and drew their observations of their bean plants’ growth.

A photo of Inas and Salma with their growing bean plants on the screen.

Inas and Salma on stage presenting

WELL DONE KAKAK!!

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Finished!! Kakak looks very happy!!

 

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Here I Am

Posted by: littlemuffins on: October 15, 2009

Here I am still having trouble updating this blog. I think I have abandoned it for more than 3 months and now I paused just too many times even to finish a sentence..

We went back to Msia for 5 weeks in July to August. We came back here very tired and exhausted only to find out that the house was full of dust and of course the floor downstairs was really like a beach full of sand. Literally! We were told, there were 5 occasions of sandstorm and that explains the condition of my very very sandy floor! No I didn’t bother to vacuum or sweep it.. I was too tired and so did MrA.

Then, in less than 24 hours later, the movers were all ready waiting for us to open the door for them to clear up the house. Yes, we moved from Doha to AlKhor in the same community in which Inas’ school is located… Alhamdulillah :)

This means Inas school journey is cut so much shorter.. from 1 hour to merely 5 – 10 minutes (and that is considering the bus can only move at a maximum speed level of 25 km/hr in this community)

Tired.. exhausted and disorientated as I had no idea where all the stuff were kept. I had to open every closet and drawers of the new house. It’s like playing hide and seek with my very own belongings.. I didn’t have the energy to monitor where things were kept in/at and so I just let them arranged freely according to their logical sense haha :D

and not mentioning having to list down all the faulty things in the new house.. you know like something’s not working.. not functioning.. broken or faulty… and the list goes on and MrA had to identify which complaint goes to electrical, which goes to civil, mechanical and so forth because.. oh sorry Madam, we’re not in charge of that.. you have to report to so and so... and not forgetting that to fix one TINY handle of kitchen drawer, a group of at least 3 men would come- the supervisor with at least 2 workers and all of them would gather at the broken kitchen cabinet handle.. hehe :D Amusing!!

So, for 2-3 weeks after that seeing me waiting patiently for every different kind of different maintenance guy who most of the time have no time-frame so to speak. Well, it’s nothing new.. but it got worse when the person couldn’t differentiate yesterday and tomorrow or Thursday and Tuesday…. When I was upstairs and heard the door bell rang, I must make myself moved very very quickly which was not that easy. Well, you know sometimes they didn’t want to wait a little bit and quickly went away and easily would say.. Ohh we went to your house.. no one.. no one at home.. So, I had to quickly catch them at the door before they ran away!! and in the middle of the waiting game, nak pergi toilet pun berdebar takut door bell berbunyi hahahahha :D

Hmm.. Alhamdulillah after 2 months in the new house, things have gradually settling in its place.. except of course waiting for maintenance guys is the top priority of my house chores ;)

And so after exactly 1 week moving into the new house, we welcomed the month of Ramadhan.. first time here :) Alhamdulillah..

In the middle of Ramadhan, the new academic year began. Inas is in Year 2 and Umar in Foundation Stage (Reception Class). Umar is the youngest in his class as he was born in August and here the cut off point for the kids’ birth date for every particular academic year is 31st August unlike in Msia it’s 31st December. On the first day, I let Umar went to school by bus and I came later to see him in his new classroom. He was really enjoying himself and didn’t bother to even say bye-bye to mummy :P

Mummy lekat tag dekat baju Umar hehe :D

Mummy lekat tag dekat baju Umar hehe :D

1st day- waiting for the bus :)

Ist day- waiting for the bus :)

Umars Class- 1st Day

Umar's Class- 1st Day

Umar in Puppies Class @1st Day

Towards the end of Ramadhan Umar had his Orange day. On this day all the Reception Classes were assigned with different colours and Umar’s class got to be orange. I was initially worried because I never bought any orange clothes for him and there was not enough time to buy one. Alhamdulillah I remember the orange long sleeve tshirt my brother gave Umar last year. He had not wear it because it was slightly big for him then. So, on that Orange Day, Umar happily went to school in orange!! And he ate oranges and carrots during snack time too besides the food he brought from home. Her teacher Mrs E brought the oranges and carrots on Orange Day. I believe it was a very fun and interesting day for the kids. Thank you PakLong and MakLong for the orange tshirt :) Oh yes, I found an old orange hat MrA got during Family Day when we were back in Bintulu and thus Umar got to wear it to school on that day!!

Umar also painted an orange + black Eid Mubarak card and brought it home!! Thank you for the card Abg Umar!! ( I forgot to snap a pic of the card.. It’s there on the fridge’s door now)

And then it was Syawal.. It is also our first time celebrating Eid Fitr here in Qatar.. Alhamdulillah.. we got 5 open houses invitations and imagine how bloated the already bloated bump I have.  I have not mentioned in the blog that I am now 31 week pregnant and just like being pregnant with Inas, I feel like I am a big whale :D  Ok so nothing new about that. It’s just that with Inas I gained 20kg and now I gained 12 kg only but the final weight is just about the same… heheheh. Dont be surprised!! Before being pregnant with Inas I was obviously much much too much lighter compared with my current pre-pregnancy size hehe :P

Selamat Hari raya!!! 1 Syawal 1430H

Selamat Hari raya!!! 1 Syawal 1430H

Nak keluar pergi jalan2 raya /open houses waiting!!

Nak keluar pergi jalan2 raya /open houses waiting!!

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So, what’s new in this third preganancy?

New experience, new place, new hospital with a new practice… no epidural, no partner in the labour room, no monthly ultrasound which I was so used to of having when being pregnant with Inas and Umar.. hmm so much much new things which I deal with patiently..

And MrA is also a tad worried and disappointed that he couldn’t be able to be in the labour room. Err and I am preparing myself to embrace this new experience of in pain and pushing without MrA by my side and leave the rest to Allah.. May Allah make things easy for me Ameen..

Till the next one..

Inas First Story Book

Posted by: littlemuffins on: June 29, 2009

Inas told me sometime ago that she loves writing stories and may be she wants to be a writer when she grows up.

Inas’s dream to be a writer has somehow materialised last Friday :D

She had made her very own story book for the first time ever last weekend. Yes, she does write stories regularly everywhere in her small books, scrap book and papers but to come out with her own story book is something which had never come across my mind.

We invited our Indonesian neighbour for breakfast last Friday. When we, the adults were busy eating and catching up, Inas and Naresha (Inas’ friend in Year 2) spent time in Inas’s room playing and that’s when Naresha taught Inas how to make a book from papers.

So, they made the book and Naresha made the picture on the cover page. Inas wrote all the stories in the book. It took her the whole Friday to come out with those stories. She had 5 stories altogether. Yes, the stories are all her creation hehe :P

1. A Surprise for Fairy Angela

2. Angela and the rabbit

3. Angela Gets in trouble

4. Angela The Princess: A Magic Story About Barbie

5. Angela At School

The Cover

The Cover

Angela and the rabbit & Angela gets in trouble

Angela: The Barbie Princess & Angela at school

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Inas with her scrap book- kit given by CikJa :)

Inas with her scrap book- kit given by CikJa :)

Inas- Reading Journal

Posted by: littlemuffins on: June 23, 2009

Inas brings back a book a day.. it’s for reading at home with the parents. Her class teacher would give every kid a different book everyday. There are different reading groups in the class too- Yellow, Blue, Green and Red. Her teacher had moved Inas from the green group to a red one.

Frankly, I am sometimes “out of words” to write daily comments in Inas’s Reading Journal when Inas has finished her reading at home. The most frequent comment would be “Inas read the book fluently and accurately“.. which has now become a default comment by this lazy mummy. But sometimes when MrA took over the job of listening to Inas’ reading, he would write something else far more interesting and insightful. Hehe :D MrA has become more of an English teacher than the supposedly real one at home I would say :P

For some books there are worksheets that come along which Inas has to answer based on her comprehension of the particular reading. During school break, Inas would get 4-5 books to read and then she would have to write a sentence on her own about every book that she has read. I love all these work that Inas has to do because then I do not have to provide my comments on her reading :P

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But last few days I discovered something which I have never expected. Haha :D

Kakak, spelling book dah siap?

Dah mommy…

Ok..

and I was checking the spelling book. Done!

I took the reading journal and turned to the latest page. Hahahahahhahahahhahah :D :D :D :D

What did I find out?

Inas wrote down a comment for her own reading and copied my signature..Inas read the book accurately..

I found it very amusing!!

Called MrA to have a look and we both laughed and Inas was just grinning widely :D

Nampak tak Inas tulis?

Nampak tak Inas tulis?

Kelakarlah Kakak Inas ni :D :D :D :D

Chess and Shopping Castle!

Posted by: littlemuffins on: May 27, 2009

Mr A, the real chess player in this house (coz he played for his school and I didn’t. I was in Chess Club Form 4 &5 but not at all as good as him) has just started to teach Inas and Umar how to play the game. It started with getting them to be familiar with the chess board and the chess pieces.

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For the past one week, after dinner Mr A would spend about 30 minutes to teach Inas. Inas could already arrange the pieces accordingly and knows how all the different pieces movement. I didn’t participate because at that time of the day I am usually over and done with all many other teachings of the kids :P So, this is Mr. A’s forte and I am more than happy to let them enjoy themselves together.

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Umar was not taught to play properly but everytime MrA was teaching Kakak Inas, Umar would never fail to be there too. By time, he could identify some of the chess pieces himself.

Abang.. what’s this? (MrA showed him the castle)

Shopping Castle!!!! Umar said very eagerly!!!

Hahahahahha :D SHOPPING CASTLE????????

For info, our house is less than 5 minutes (2 roundabouts away) to a shopping mall which houses Marks&Spencer, BHS, Kurt Geiger, NineWest, Zara, Mothercare and many more brands and of course Carrefour. We seldom go there although it’s near but we definitely pass this mall regularly. It’s called Landmark Shopping Mall but Umar calls it THE SHOPPING CASTLE since the first time he saw this mall.

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Look at the image of the shopping mall below and you can clearly see the design of the mall which resembles a tower of a castle just like the castle piece of a chess game.

Landmark Mall.. notice the castle-like designs on top :D

Landmark Mall.. notice the castle-like design on top :D

And that’s the reason why Umar identifies the chess castle piece as shopping castle. Funny!!! :D

**Inas was trying to teach Umar arranging the chess pieces below. Excuse Umar coz he was pretending to be a baby in the video.. grrrrr!!! Notice his baby-ish voice :P

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Just for info :

Chess as an education strategy in Idaho

Inas-Year 1 Production

Posted by: littlemuffins on: May 22, 2009

On Tuesday and Wednesday (19 & 20th May 2009), Inas had her Year One Production at school. The performance started at 5.30 pm for both days. We got the tickets only for the show on Wednesday as it was already full on Tuesday. I drove from D0ha and Mr.A came straight to Inas school from work.

Welcome to Year 1 Production

Welcome to Year 1 Production and that's Umar's hand :)

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The theme for the Year 1 production was My Many Coloured Days by Dr Seuss. It’s a book about the different colours and how the colours describe our mood and feelings. Different class is assigned with different colours based on the book. Inas’ class got to be green. It was not easy to find green tshirt for her but we managed to get a darker version of green. After all, all the kids in Inas’s classroom wore a variety shades of green. I guess the easiest colour for girls would be for the pink class ;) Anyway, if any of you who are interested in using the book with kids in schools, you can go here to get an example of a lesson plan of My Many Coloured Days.

The Green Fishes

The Green Fishes is Inas's group

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Umar had a good time watching the show. As usual, he had memorised the song that Inas’ had to sing on that day because he heard it over and over again at home when Inas was trying to memorise it. It was Octopus’s Garden by The Beatles. Yes, The Beatles as in the 60s pop and rock band from Liverpool. This song was of course chosen by her teacher :)

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** The video below is not very clear. Inas is the one on the second from the far left.

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The Octopuss Garden

The Octopus's Garden


Inas- 2nd frm our left

Inas- 2nd frm our left

Inas' show had ended but she didn't quickly get down as she was busy locating us. The purple group has almost started their show!!

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The show ended with all the kids of Year 1 (they were 130 of them) singing What A Wonderful World. I always love this beautiful song and when all the kids sang it on stage, it sounds very lovely despite the less harmonious tone hehe :D

The lady in black, Ms Prye the music teacher who conducted the kids singing.

The lady in black, Ms Prye the music teacher who conducted the kids singing.

We had fun watching the kids performed. It was only a 45 minutes performance. When the show finished, Maghrib prayers just began at the musolla right across Inas’ school. We then headed to Al-Khor town and had our delicious turkish cuisine at the Buhary Turkish Restaurant. Really nice! 35 minutes later we reached home feeling full and pink :D

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By the way, while waiting for MrA to reach Inas school before the production started, I got to capture some shots around Inas’s school.

Across Inas school. On the right is the musolla..


Notice the dates on the tree..

Notice the dates on the tree..


Inas school from across the road

Inas' school from across the road